So, without further ado ...
My new release, Summer
at Mustang Ridge, is set at a family-run dude ranch where the cowboys are
hunky, the cowgirls spunky, and the kitchen specializes in traditional ranch
biscuits made from a sourdough starter named Herman. Which got me thinking
about family traditions and food.
One of the pass-it-down traditions in my family is the Joy of Cooking. I learned to cook using
my mother’s falling-apart copy, which had been a gift from her mother, and I received
my own one Christmas. I might have been disappointed that it wasn’t a model
horse (though I’ll deny it if you ask in front of my mom), but these days my
copy lives in my kitchen marked up with red and blue pen and puffy from the
many loose papers and note cards stuck between the pages.
Though I just celebrated the big four-oh, I’m a relative
newlywed, having married into a big, interconnected sprawl of a family that was
best described when my then-boyfriend said, “Don’t be nervous about meeting
them. They’ll love you because they love me, and I love you.” Which has
absolutely proven true. And they not only welcomed me wholeheartedly, there has
been a refrain of “Granny George would have loved you!”
Granny George, it turns out, was a shotgun-toting,
English-teaching force of nature who went through several husbands and adored
the written word, books and authors. I’m sorry I didn’t get to meet her, but I
have a feeling she’d be proud of the legacy she left behind. Which, since we’re
talking about tradition, includes Granny George’s Green Chili.
For our second date (thank you, Match.com), my now-husband made
me fresh salsa. And as he roasted the peppers, he told me about the family’s
green chili, and how each member might make it a little differently, but it all
went back to Mama George (Granny’s mother) learning the recipe in New Mexico
back in the ‘thirties. The following summer, at our wedding, I got family
points not only for taking his unpronounceable last name, but also asking for
the green chili recipe.
Except there wasn’t one.
His brother (I got a brother-in-law, how cool is that?), who
is a far better cook than I, did this sort of interpretive dance of “you take a
piece of meat about this big” (makes football-size gestures) “simmer it with
whatever spices look good …” His father (also an excellent cook, especially if
open flames are involved) did something similar. Unfortunately, I cook like a
scientist—I need a protocol, darn it!
So I emailed my mother-in-law, who teaches abroad. I think
she was in Germany at the time. She responded with “I don’t think we’ve ever
written this down …” But, bless her, she sent me meat suggestions, approximate
poundages, and some alternatives in case I couldn’t find everything. (She was
used to making do with whatever she could get, whether it be Africa, rural China,
or wherever.)
Since then, I’ve put a whole lot of miles on my pretty red
crockpot and made Granny George’s Green Chili my own. I’ve also eaten several
other versions at the big, boisterous family get-togethers that seem to spring
up at regular intervals just because. And I love knowing that, like the Joy of Cooking and some version of the
name George, I’ve got green chili to pass along to the next generation when the
time comes.
So tell me, what’s your most famous (or infamous) family
tradition? I’d love to hear about it!
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